after spending a week in hawaii, i can see some changes in the boys' sleep. aaron, of course, is sleeping later. he doesn't fall asleep until 11ish and the teacher's aide at school told me it's been difficult waking him up after nap time is over. however, he is still ok sleeping in his own bed.
kyle, on the other hand, was a big challenge the other night. when we were in hawaii, i would rock him to sleep before putting him in his crib. he would go to sleep late and would wake up the same time he normally would at home so that's like 3 am - 4 am in hawaii! since i wanted to sleep more i would rock kyle back to sleep and let him sleep with me. unfortunately, kyle got spoiled by that. the other night he woke up at 1 am crying and wanted to be held. i picked him up and was ready to rock him back to sleep. then i thought, no, i shouldn't enforce this habit. so i put him down in his crib and that was when the battle began! he cried for 45 minutes while i sat in his room trying to comfort him without picking him up. he finally stopped crying after he threw his blanket to the floor. i gave back his blanket and he started examining his crib. then he sat down, hugged his blanket, rocked a bit, and his head started to wobble. i thought to myself, "good, he's tired. another half an hour and he should be asleep." well, an hour past and he wasn't sitting anymore. he finally laid his head down, BUT he wasn't asleep. his eyes would close then open, close then open. i think he was checking to make sure i was still there. it was now around 4 am so i moved closer to his bedroom door and he started crying again. so i thought, maybe i should convince him to sleep by talking to him. i asked him where is his bed. he points down to his crib. i asked him where he sleeps. again, he points down to his crib. then i asked, "where does mommy sleep?" he points to the chair i was sitting in. =(
i finally threw in the towel at 5 am because i only had one hour of sleep. gary took over and rocked kyle to sleep!!!! so much for my effort....
HOWEVER, kyle slept through the night last night! from 7:30 pm to 7 am! aaron even woke him up last night around 9ish, but he went back to sleep by himself. so maybe he did learned something from the other night! hehe we will see how he does the next several nights.